So for now, I will say this. I am continuously torn between being annoyed at Mark for cramping my style, and being grateful to him for how much he does. For taking over the catering hunt, even though it means that things happen a little slower than I would like. For being willing to do the large-scale DIY projects and being psyched about them. When I first came to him about wanting to make signs for our venue, I was afraid he would shoot me down. (Like he has done with well, several dumb ideas I've had; hence the cramping my style.) Instead, he took the project and ran with it, and now I'm not allowed to touch it. (Hence the cramping my style.)
Wedding planning, as Cupcake Wedding points out, continuously reflects our relationship dynamic. I'm the creative idea person, the verbose writer, the person who knows what she wants. Mark is the executor of the ideas, the editor (he edits pretty much every post before it goes up), and the guy who only knows he doesn't like something, but can't say what it is he would like until it is put in front of him. And so it goes.
What's your planning dynamic?