I got up to toss the bouquet and nearly fell off the stage. I was going to use my tosser bouquet, but it was in my dressing room, so I pitched my SIL's bouquet instead. When I got up on the stage, I very nearly fell off, so watch your footing if you are climbing on anything.
I know that the bouquet toss is grotesque to some people - but for my group of friends, it was fun, and by some, appreciated - my girl friends are mostly girls in their mid-twenties in serious relationships on the verge of getting engaged. Pretty much every girl on the floor for the toss has a serious boyfriend, and a couple of the girls actually welcomed the toss. I think if I had a large group of truly single friends, or my friends were older, or the bouquet toss was mandatory, it would have been less fun. I think you really have to know your crowd to know if the toss is the right choice for your group.
Did you toss anything? Will you be tossing anything?